“All I can be is who I am now, and then work hard to become the person I most want to be.”
I’ve always had a love/hate relationship with book clubs. I won’t even try to explain why, but I never seem to last more than a few months. My record before now? I think I made it 182 days. In 2023, my daughter pulled together a group of “serious readers only.” When she invited me to join, I decided it was time to give book clubs another try—I’ve been a faithful member for 18 months. One of our attendees asked last month if we could bedazzle a book at our next meeting. What?!? Are you kidding me? That was a blatant offense to a book snoot like me. Needless to say, I think it’s time for me to jump the bedazzled ship. The one positive from last month’s book club was an amazing selection. The Many Lives of Mama Love was worth the pain I silently suffered at the sequined suggestion.
The Many Lives of Mama Love recounts Lara Love Hardin’s amazing true story. A soccer mom living in a posh community who seems to have it all, no one would ever suspect she’s hiding a shady secret. Mama Love is funding a heroin addiction by stealing her neighbor’s credit cards. Looks like Frost was right: “good fences make good neighbors.” Fortunately, he was right about mending too. After being convicted of 32 felonies, the recovering addict learns to bring love and healing to her fellow inmates and is affectionately called Mama Love. If only she can forgive herself and find a way to move beyond her troubled past.
Upon release, Mama Love recreates herself as a ghostwriter, thanks to a kind man willing to give her a chance when no one else would. Her success is inspiring. Love’s rise from convict, to writer, to humanist (oh, how I’d love to meditate with the Dali Lama), to eventually meeting Oprah is one of the best inspirational stories I’ve read in a long time. This reviewer may have said it best, “The Many Lives of Mama Love is a heartbreaking and tender journey from shame to redemption, despite a system that makes it almost impossible for us to move beyond the worst thing we have ever done.”